Tuesday, July 8, 2025

A Confident Girl from a Small Village

 

A Confident Girl from a Small Village

I’m here to continue my story. This part takes me back to when I was just 4 or 5 years old. Even at that young age, I remember being a confident child.

My First Day of School

When I was around 5, my father decided to send me to school. At the same time, my mother was pregnant with her third child—my younger brother. One of my favorite memories from that time was coming home from school and holding my newborn brother in my lap. I even took a day off from school when he was born. My younger sister (who is three years younger than me) and I danced with joy when we heard the news.

I was sent to a small village school along with my cousins. I never threw tantrums about going to school—it was always exciting for me. On my first day, I entered a room with 30–40 kids from three different classes (1st, 2nd, and 3rd). There was no LKG or UKG in our village.

I mistakenly sat in the 3rd class row, but the kids guided me to the 1st class section. When the teacher entered, the room fell silent. I was the only one excited—because he looked just like my mama (uncle). He noticed me and asked me to come forward. I happily did. He asked for my notebook and started giving homework. I was so thrilled that I gently pushed him and sat beside him on his chair! He was surprised and politely told me that students aren’t supposed to sit on the teacher’s chair. I immediately got up and followed his instructions.

๐Ÿ„ The Cow and the Coin

One day, a teacher asked all students to memorize the English poem “The Cow.” The next day, he began checking. He was known for beating students who didn’t study, and everyone was terrified—including me. I hadn’t learned it either. But when my turn came, I walked up to him with a nervous heart and said,

“Sir, I couldn’t learn ‘The Cow,’ but I have a 2-rupee coin my grandfather gave me. You can take it, but please don’t beat me.”

The teacher burst into laughter. He was touched by my innocence and confidence—and that day, he didn’t beat a single child.


๐Ÿ† My First Result

When results were announced, I was anxious. I thought I might fail. But the teacher came in asking,

“Where is that girl? Where is that girl?”

My heart sank—I thought I had failed. But then he announced that I had secured 1st rank in the class! I was shocked and overjoyed. I ran home, dancing and searching for my mother. She was washing utensils. I told her, “Maa, I got 1st rank!” She smiled, but didn’t show much excitement. She was living in a toxic environment at her in-laws’ house, where even hugging or kissing her children would invite taunts from others.

From then on, I consistently ranked in the top 3. Studying became my escape and my source of happiness.


๐Ÿ“š My Love for Learning

We had only a black-and-white TV at home—no smartphones or gadgets. I wasn’t allowed to play with neighborhood kids. After school, I helped my mother with chores and studied in the evenings.

I studied in a government school where English wasn’t taught well. Until 6th grade, I struggled with it. But then I started learning on my own and became the most confident English speaker in my high school. I participated in every curricular activity and was always self-motivated.

I was passionate about space. In 5th and 6th grade, I borrowed science books from older students to read about space. Math, science, and English became my favorite subjects. Teachers praised me and believed I would do something big in life.

They took me to block and district-level science quizzes, where I often ranked in the top 3. I brought home trophies and prizes, and those moments were magical.


๐ŸŽ“ My Academic Achievements

I studied in a Hindi-medium school until 10th grade. I scored 92% in my board exams, with 100% in mathematics. I received two scholarships—₹24,000 and ₹10,000—which were more than the total fees I had paid from 1st to 10th grade.

People in my village were amazed. But despite all this, I had never learned computers until 10th grade. Our school had only 2–3 computers, and we were taught only how to start them and use MS Paint.


❄️ The Winter Before My Board Exams

In 10th grade, my school was 2 km away. I walked every day—even during my periods. One winter, my mother had to go to her maternal home for a month. I woke up at 3 AM, studied, cleaned the house, fed the cattle, cooked food, and walked to school. My teacher was shocked when she learned about my routine.

During exams, some students brought people to help them cheat. I refused to cheat—my values were my priority. A day before my math exam, I was stung by an insect on my lower lip. It was swollen and painful, but I still gave the exam—and scored 100%.


๐ŸŒ  The Power of Teachers

I’ve always been lucky to have amazing teachers. They believed in me more than I believed in myself. One teacher gave us free tuition, and because of him, I cleared the National Talent Search Exam and earned a scholarship.

My dedication and passion for learning brought me success. I always shined.


๐Ÿš€ My Dream

My dream was to go to Bangalore for a degree in aeronautical engineering and work with ISRO.

What happened next? I’ll share that in the next part of my story.


๐Ÿ’ฌ Final Thoughts

If you’ve read this far, thank you. I hope my story reminds you that no matter where you come from, your dreams are valid. Your strength is real. And your journey matters.

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A Confident Girl from a Small Village

  A Confident Girl from a Small Village I’m here to continue my story. This part takes me back to when I was just 4 or 5 years old. Even a...